Add the fact that younger guys have more stamina, and you just may have a match made in orgasm heaven. Sometimes, steamy sex is the main thing that draws two people from different age groups together, but if a lasting relationship is what you're after, then don't just think with your genitals. Try to be as diplomatic as possible. By Karen Fratti. Plus, how they respond to you will tell you a ton about their maturity level and if they are able to communicate clearly. Just beware that some men may be true gold diggers looking for a free ride or to be taken care of financially, she adds. As John and Lauren got older, however, the creepiness rule differed from how people actually responded.
So don't compare me to the girls your age who haven't.
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If so, good! I'd ideally love to live in that mindset — one that is naive to how truly fucked the world is right now. Weigh the good, the bad, and the complicated before you consider bridging the age gap. Karen Fratti April 17, 8: They're still living in their young bubble in which everything is kind of OK and reality seems bearable. But, of course, if calling yourself a "cougar" gets your rocks off, then more power to you, my friend. They're exes for a reason.